V embroiled in a tiff with her on-again-off-again best friend H. Before Christmas the mother of another friend of V's (who is also a friend of mine) and I talked about taking both lots of kids to Luna Park before school goes back. Without consulting me (and unbeknownst to me) V got on the blower to H to invite her to come along too. She then asked me if H could come and I said no because we were going in the other friend's car. Realising she had been hasty with her invitation, V rang H up again and UNINVITED her. Not only is H upset but I suspect her mother is as well. When dh rang the mother yesterday to see if H could come over and play today, she said that H was 'too tired' to come over. I sent the mother an email last night (was too late to phone) explaining what had happening and re-inviting H to Luna Park (even if this means we have to catch public transport to get there). Haven't heard back so suppose I should follow this up with a phone call today (as much as I don't feel like doing this). V also feels very bad about it and even offered to let H have her place in the car and she would stay home. If only she would THINK before opening her mouth (think she takes after me in this regard so can't blame her too much)!